My NFT's

26 September, 2014

A new approach

Hi all..
I am not a popular blogger, and I think a few people only read my blog, and 1 of those few comment. But still, writing after a long time. This year has brought many ups and downs to me, which is not new to me ever. I have gone through many downs in my life, especially in the matters of heart. But, here am I, stronger, and positive minded, with a new approach to things. Sometimes, when I think about my past, I really want to come back to my present, as there are most of things I would like to forget. I wonder if it was the same person, who committed such mistakes, and didn't apply his mind while making them.
                 Earlier I had a different viewpoint of things, and I thought just from my heart always, but then I guess it was high time to get practical and forget the negatives that hurt u, rather than keep dwelling on them. By my luck or otherwise, I once happened to come along the book of a bestselling author, Robert Kiyosaki. When I started reading the book, at first I didn't get much. But slowly, I actually understood what he was trying to say. Everything written in his books is a challenge to the current trend in the society, like going to school, study hard, get good grades, then go to some engineering/medical/ business college, again study hard, get good grades, then again study hard, be manipulative, face an interview, Say what the interviewers like to say, get a high paying job, work from 10 to 6, get scolded for ur follies, do enough work to avoid getting fired, etc etc.
                 If you frankly ask someone, what is the use of spending 12+ years in school or college, and what are the uses of things u have been taught in school? The fact is, if you wanna be successful and rich in real life, u don't need to be a top grader in school. I am not saying that going to school and getting education is bad, but there are few things in schools, (mentioned in Kiyosaki's books too) which I don't like. Schools punish children if they do some mistakes. Children are afraid of making mistakes. This philosophy continues in almost their whole life. First teachers punished them, then they think that if they commit mistakes, life will punish them, they will get failed, etc. But the fact is, people always ONLY learn by making mistakes. With the threat of punishment, students often are afraid doing anything, and they don't learn much. Big investments and big businesses involve big risk. If you don't take risk, you will be safe, but u'll not move ahead on the ladder of big success. Most of the people always think of playing it safe. Just limiting themselves to a simple job, earning a little, adjusting on things they can't buy, and when they are on their deathbed, they think " Wish I had done that..." or likewise. U only live once, it's ur choice which kind of life u prefer.
                   Secondly, schools focus on making students ONLY job efficient. They are made to mug up things, rather than actually understanding them. They read what they are made to read, what is written in the book, rather than what actually the fact is. History is a good example. Congress has been in power for most of time, and so there are chapters on their leaders like Gandhi, Nehru, and just a small mention on the true freedom fighters who gave up their life, like Bhagat Singh, Azaad. How many of us know these martyrs' birth date or death anniversary? If u really wish to be rich, just be in school so as to pass, and don't think deeply, or do research on what u have read in school. Also, many people say " Work hard". I do agree a little, but I would prefer to work for 2-3 hours a day for myself and earning 10,000 than working for 8 hours for some other person, getting scolded on mistakes, do what ur boss wants u to do, and in the end, getting just 5,000. U get rich by ur mind, not only by ur body. If latter were the case, the most rich persons were the laborers. There are a lot of things that I can write, about the current flaw in education and law, but it's already a long post till now, and many of u will not agree to me, simply coz u don't want to go against the things being told by most of other people. Now I tend to question everything rather than just accepting the fact. I explore opportunities, rather than problems. Thank you for ur patience, if u have read this much. Suggestions and questions welcome.

27 October, 2012

Life Quotes


I am in my 30th year now, still single and looking. Sometimes it's tough to spend a day sitting at my workplace and staring at the walls. Lots to say, but no one to share with. Whole day is spent like that in my restaurant, which is in early stage of its operation. Then I reach home, have my dinner, and talk a little with my parents, telling them what do I want. They want the best for me, but sometimes they do understand me, sometimes they don't, exactly.  I have few friends, 1-2 of whom are really close to me, and are in touch, but others are less in touch. Exploring the best and worst aspects of life. I am the best for some person and am the worst for another person. I am the same, my nature hasn't changed much since the last few years,but the outlook of some persons towards me has changed. I admit making a lot of mistakes in life.  Life has taught me a lot, and still I am learning more. The last one year or so went like sometimes miracle, and sometimes like shocks. Well, such is life.
             I would not like to bore anyone with my philosophical lecture on life. But want to say it all what I've learnt in the form of quotations, quoted by some eminent personalities, some of whom u may know.
Want to gain more confidence, positiveness, killer instinct and discipline with in me, which are main aspects of a successful person. Hope life makes me more strong and God generates these qualities within me. I hope these quotes can be of help for you. If you read it, and can get anything useful out of these quotes, I'll feel my purpose has been fulfilled. Regards xoxo


“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” 
― Marilyn Monroe

"A life spent making mistakes is not only honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
― George Bernard Shaw

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” 
― Mae West

“In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.” 
― Robert Frost


"In the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away."
- Shing Xiong


“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.” 
― Mother Teresa


When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me'. 
― Erma Bombeck 

“Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.” 
― Dr. Seuss



“Who are you to judge the life I live?
I know I'm not perfect
-and I don't live to be-
but before you start pointing fingers...
make sure you hands are clean!” 
― Bob Marley

“Just when you think it can't get any worse, it can. And just when you think it can't get any better, it can.” 
― Nicholas Sparks, At First Sight


When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.
- Unknown

& finally.........................

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.
- Unknown


Rishh's Quote: 

Smile always, make others smile; may be you have hurt someone, or have been hurt, knowingly or unknowingly, ask for forgiveness and forgive, because life is too short to live in malice for someone and keeping grudges in our hearts. Love everyone, and always try to spread love and happiness, and the world may become a better place to live in...