Positiveness

This post is inspired from a great book "The Secret".. If u haven't read it yet,I suggest u must read it.. 

The secret of life is the law of attraction. It is the law of self belief. It just says "Like attracts like". It is impartial, like the law of gravity. If u are falling from the roof of a tall building, it doesn't matter whether u are a good or a bad person, but u r going to die. Similarly, it doesn't matter, whether ur thoughts are good or bad, but whatever u think, ur thoughts attract all the like thoughts from the universe, and depending on their nature, they will make u feel better, or worse. If u think u r a failure, this thought will attract every instance of when u'd failed in life, and it will make u feel even bad. Similarly, if u think good, this thought will attract more positive thoughts to u, and will make u feel better. So feel special, feel good and feel happy always.

          How to feel happy when u r feeling sad? Listen to ur favorite song, think of some pleasant memories, or think about ur beloved, while closing ur eyes.. Focus on it, feel it.. smile, for a minute.. U'll feel better. When u wake up in the morning, send a positive message to ur mind, over and over again, for a while, preferably while meditating, about the day that is going to happen, like "I'll be happy all this day" or "I'll have a wonderful journey this day". Feel like the day has ended, and u felt the same as u'd thought in ur msg. Feel the positiveness, and feel the power that's coming with this positiveness! What u've thought, will definitely happen! Have faith, don't hope, but believe, with confidence, that what u want in life, u'll get. Make a picture of u having the possession of that thing. Notice ur expression in that picture. Feel it. Believe it. Write it down somewhere, that u're feeling happy that u've finally got it. The universe will serve as a Genie to u, saying "Your wish is my command" and it will surely help u to achieve that goal!

                                                                                                    Stay happy always!

                                                                                                     Lots of love and happiness! 

Life

             As u know, life is not a bed of roses. Everyone has to face some difficulties in life. If there is no difficulty, it is not life. How u take it, is important. Life seems tough at times, and makes u down, but the real winner then rises up,and makes his life worthwhile. I am still facing a lot of challenges in my life. Lots of people doubt my capabilities;many times I don't give a damn about it, but sometimes, it really feels bad, when close ones do that. When everything seems to be on the opposite side, it is tough to be normal and happy. This post may seem pessimistic to u, but it's the bitterness of life.
             People term one type of work as 'small' and other as 'big'. Some persons do not realize that the most successful persons on Earth were not always like that. They started earning from a small venture only, and their smart work and determination brought them to this level. I don't want to become the most successful person ever, I just want to earn a good enough income, to take care of my family, so that I can proudly say that I am fully independent. I'm in business, but it's a 'small' venture for me, may be coz of location. But I think that this location will matter in the long run, and this will see success, surely. Hope I am right this time..
             In personal front also, many things are happening, which I can't tell on a public blog. Sometimes I feel really low, and life seems tougher. My personal diary knows about it, and myself. Few can understand my heart, and I feel hopeless at times. The only thing left is hope. Want to be dominating and more strong. Life will not be always tough, everything will be fine some day, and I'm waiting for that golden day patiently, and trying to keep my cool....
                                            Thanks a lot for reading. Lots of love...

College Days & Friends

                  College is not only about placement, studies and making career. It gives the most important thing in life to us, friends. Friends are people who care, hug, fight, help u, in their own way, that is special. When no one is there to understand u, friend is the person, who understands u, and gives u selfless suggestion. A false friend can destroy u, but good friend wastes his time and energy on u, just to make u a better person. Had a lot of friends, of different nature, in college.. They used to hang out in FFC(fast food corner, as we called it) or on the steps near flag post, or on the grass near canteen, and did a lot of masti, giving birthday bumps to guys, and then hugging them with full affection, then pushing them for treat somewhere.. A lil pain, but a wonderful feeling at heart.. It felt like the most special person that day.. Placement time: Friends helping out each other with lots of tips and tricks.. All of those are great memories to cherish..
                    I remember I had an operation, which forced me on bed for around 3 months, after that when I went to college,lots of persons surrounded me,and asked about my health. Some great friends helped me out in some ways, which benefited me.Some shocks, a few months later,when a good friend parted from me, coz of my petty mistakes. It took long to overcome.
                     The students used to enjoy a full day before the semester exam, and study just at night,but it was enough to earn a percentage as good as 70%. My room mates were no exception. They enjoyed a lot, and lived for their friends.
                     It has been 4 years now,but the memories of those days are still in my mind and heart. Missing those days, and those friends, a few closed ones, who are far away now, busy in their world. I miss those birthday bumps, those hugs, those calls at exactly 12'o clock at night, just to wish a happy birthday, and those treats. Those days will never come back, but the memories sometimes come as dreams during sleep. Life is not always the same. I miss u, friends.. 

Lot more to go

                 So, have turned 28 today. Feeling special, as a birthday boy may feel, with a good no of wishes coming in, but life seems incomplete at times. As every other person, I've dreams and desire to fulfill them, but luck's not always on my side. Sometimes life seems beautiful, sometimes tough, and sometimes toughest. Hope I get what I want from life, a nice caring partner, a good earning business, and a nice life. 

                  2 of my friends care for me very much,and tell me to be tension free, but I've a lot more to do, and a lot more to happen in my life, with twists and turns, shocks and surprises, proposal and rejection, and lots more. God always tests people, and has been testing me from long, hope I pass the test some day. I've to stand on my own, proudly, and have to achieve what I want, may be the toughest thing possible. Everything is possible through a person's efforts I believe, and we should only leave something to God when we can't do anything about it. Efforts are in my hand, and giving result is in God's hand. If my efforts are true and in the right direction, and my heart is pure, God will surely help me out some day. A person doesn't always get what he wants in life, in personal and professional front. I can do only efforts, from heart, rest is on God. 

                   My life is full of many good and bad memories, and I'm learning from them. Have to give life a new dimension this year, lot more to do, and life has lot more to go.... Friends and family are a big support for me. I love and value them.

                      Best wishes, lots of love and regards.....

The Law of the garbage truck

Hi friends.. got this mail from one of my friends today, and thought I should share with the few people who read this blog, may be sometimes. So, here it goes:

One day, I hopped into a taxi and took off for the airport. 
We were driving in the right lane when suddenly, a black car, 
jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. 
My taxi driver slammed the brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! 
The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. 
My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. I mean, was really friendly.
So I asked, "Why did you just do that? 
This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!
"This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, 'The Law of the Garbage Truck'.
He explained, "Many people are like garbage trucks. 
They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. 
As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. 
NEVER take it personally. 
Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on with the routine life.
"Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home or on the streets.
The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. 
Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so...... 
"Love the people who treat you right...Pray for the ones who don't". 
A very rightly said quote: Life is 10% what you make and 90% how you take it.

Hope you get the lesson.. So enjoy life.. Lots of love and regards.